Coaching
is a partnership between people where the coach, as an ally, is
devoted specifically to your life and the results that will bring
the highest level of success and deepest sense of fulfillment. Coaching
believes in the inherent power and strengths that each of us bring
to life. These strengths allow us to create, envision, persevere,
and succeed in our personal and interpersonal life. A coach helps
you focus your power in the world in a way that enhances your life,
benefits others, and brings about growth within yourself and invites
growth in others.
Tom
Krapu is a PdD level licensed psychologist who is trained to help
people learn new skills and make significant behavior changes. The
PhD level of training is the highest level of training in the social
and behavioral sciences. Tom is here to offer his skills as a psychologist
in the areas of communication, problem solving, behavior change,
and leadership training. I do this through a service called "Coaching",
in which you come to me for help in making decisions and implementing
them, in order to achieve goals that you decide for yourself.
Academic
achievement is the basis of most
success in today's world. This includes the training that is required
to succeed even if you don't attend college or graduate school.
Tom has experience working over a twenty year period helping people
understand their values, goals and vision for themselves, and identify
development and career paths. His coaching in this area involves
working along side people to help them understand themselves, their
strengths and create a vision that can guide future planning and
action.
Within
an educational setting, coaching may focus on creating a clearer
vision of the future, focusing more clearly on specific goals, organizing
and/or managing your time and resources more effectively, and understanding
the interpersonal aspects of succeeding in an educational setting.
For
individuals who work in an educational setting coaching can focus
on your
optimal effectiveness in your relationship with others, your abilities
in the area of leadership (free
ebulletin on leadership), and the efficiency of your
work within your institution. It may focus on those areas of your
life which will have the greatest impact in the areas of professional
or personal development or both. This can include career planning
for individuals who are already established within their career.
As
your Coach, my job is to help you to take information and skills
that you already have as well as identify resources to gain additional
information that will be helpful to you in achieving your goals.
I will help you use this information:
(1) to make decisions about which changes you would like to make,
(2) to develop a personal "action plan" in order to make
those changes,
(3) to implement your action plan and make the behavioral changes,
and
(4) to develop strategies to maintain the changes you have made.
I
will support, encourage, teach, and help you stay "on track"
toward your goals.
You, as the Client, set the agenda for your coaching, and your success
will depend on your willingness to define and take risks and try
new approaches. You can expect your Coach to be honest and direct,
asking straightforward questions and using challenging techniques
to help you move forward. You are expected to evaluate your own
progress, and if the coaching is not working as you wish, you should
immediately inform me so we can both take steps to correct the problem.
Like
any human endeavor, coaching can involve feelings of distress and
frustration, which accompany the process of change. Coaching does
not offer any guarantee of success but has been helpful to others.
In addition, I have attended a coaching training program (certificate)
through the Arbinger Institute (link)
and have been authorized to use Arbinger methods and materials in
one-on-one coaching. You may choose to incorporate these ideas and
methods into your own coaching process.
It
is also important to understand that Coaching is a professional
relationship. While it may feel at times like a close personal relationship,
it is not one that can extend beyond professional boundaries, either
during or after our work together.