Coaching
is a partnership between people where the coach, as an ally, is
devoted specifically to your life and the results that will bring
the highest level of success and deepest sense of fulfillment. Coaching
believes in the inherent power and strengths that each of us bring
to life. These strengths allow us to create, envision, persevere,
and succeed in our personal and interpersonal life. A coach helps
you focus your power in the world in a way that enhances your life,
benefits others, and brings about growth within yourself and invites
growth in others.
Tom
Krapu is a PdD level licensed psychologist who is trained to help
people learn new skills and make significant behavior changes. The
PhD level of training is the highest level of training in the social
and behavioral sciences. Tom is here to offer his skills as a psychologist
in the areas of communication, problem solving, behavior change,
and leadership training. I do this through a service called "Coaching",
in which you come to me for help in making decisions and implementing
them, in order to achieve goals that you decide for yourself.
In
personal coaching, coaching may
focus on your optimal effectiveness in your relationships with others.
It may also focus on those areas of your life which will have the
greatest impact on the results you want to see in your life such
as your career, family relationships, and how you are accomplishing
future goals and plans. No dream is too big to consider through
coaching.
As
your Coach, my job is to help you to take information and skills
that you already have as well as identify resources to gain additional
information that will be helpful to you in achieving your goals.
I will help you use this information:
(1) to make decisions about which changes you would like to make,
(2) to develop a personal "action plan" in order to make
those changes,
(3) to implement your action plan and make the behavioral changes,
and
(4) to develop strategies to maintain the changes you have made.
I
will support, encourage, teach, and help you stay "on track"
toward your goals.
You, as the Client, set the agenda for your coaching, and your success
will depend on your willingness to define and take risks and try
new approaches. You can expect your Coach to be honest and direct,
asking straightforward questions and using challenging techniques
to help you move forward. You are expected to evaluate your own
progress, and if the coaching is not working as you wish, you should
immediately inform me so we can both take steps to correct the problem.
Like
any human endeavor, coaching can involve feelings of distress and
frustration, which accompany the process of change. Coaching does
not offer any guarantee of success but has been helpful to others.
In addition, I have attended a coaching training program (certificate)
through the Arbinger Institute (link)
and have been authorized to use Arbinger methods and materials in
one-on-one coaching. You may choose to incorporate these ideas and
methods into your own coaching process.
It
is also important to understand that Coaching is a professional
relationship. While it may feel at times like a close personal relationship,
it is not one that can extend beyond professional boundaries, either
during or after our work together.